Drugs are more accessible for men.

Oxytocin for fighting and arguing.

Merely looking at a woman (or preferred sexual partner), Dopamine.

Our orgasms are easier to reach with less effort, and provide a direct dopamine/endorphin pump to abuse. Once the 'fantasy' in the head is gone, because it's not needed, the oxytocin comes crashing in. I can literally fight you, forget you, then feel better afterwards.

Why are some men like this? Probably because they're alone, and can return to a place of comfort without any accountability or need to explain or justify their reactions to people with different perspectives. Get a roommate just like you? Feedback loop or echo chamber.

This is all just my opinion, clearly. I couldn't read the whole article, so like most, I just commented on what bits I could see.

Lemme go find more drugs. I get mine from sharing my opinion and being understood, and from giving compliments. Traumatic brain injury, I guess.